If someone wants "A" to happen, yet they prepare for "B," they will always get "B."
Prepare for "A" -
Actually, if "B" includes marshmallows and a fireplace, we may have a win-win. But still, if it were me, I'd prepare for "A."
If you've never visited the website, http://www.tut.com/, you should. It's pretty inspiring.
poster from MoBuck.com
PS. I found the poster pic; it probably isn't the type of image you'd find on TUT.