Living in the moment.
What is really in our control?
It's not uncommon for any of us to say that someone else makes us mad, pushes our buttons, or that it's their fault we did/responded in such a way.
But, if we really admit it, we have all of the control. We choose how we respond. We can't control much in our lives, but we can control ourselves and our responses.
It's a tough reality to face. It's so much easier if other people 'make' us do things, feel things, respond to things, etc. We don't have to own our responses or choices if we can blame someone else, or justify based on an excuse that it is beyond our control.